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What does success look like?

Success looks like a pair of little gray night stands that I made all by myself that are almost ready to go into the little girls’ room.

Okay, Gabe helped.  And the little girls “helped” paint them. They have also requested that I put a pink stripe on them so I’ll be doing that here in a few minutes after I re-putty a screw hole on the top.

They definitely aren’t perfect but let’s face it. I don’t really have an eye for detail so what do you expect? But they are cute and strong and free and the girls are quite excited about them.

Today is a busy day for us so I’d better go get it started.

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What happened when I was forgetting to blog

I failed to write the last few days. I’m not sure why. Maybe it was that I woke up late or had appointments or my coffee isn’t strong enough. I don’t know but I’m going to try to wake up my brain and recap this last week.

Matthew got braces again.  This happened on Tuesday. His mouth hurt pretty bad for a couple of days but he seems to be feeling mostly better. He still has trouble chewing though.

Also happening on Tuesday was Florida completely flipping out. Kait texted that gas stations were running out of gas already and my friend posted a picture of an empty water isle and mostly empty canned section at Walmart because Floridians go cray-cray when a hurricane may or may not be possibly coming close to where we are. Hurricane hitting the keys? PENSACOLA MUST BE NEXT BUY ALL THE THINGS.

Wednesday we went to the library. Turns out we had a late book that I didn’t know we had and when we went to check out we couldn’t so we had to run home, find said book, then come back and return it to check out the books my littles had picked out. After that Matthew and I went to the grocery store for meat and eggs and then went back to the orthodontist to have a wire fixed.
Then we filled our gas tanks and made sure we had oil and wicks for the lamps and made a plan to either evacuation with pets, or ride out the storm here, depending on the severity of Irma’s strike to NW Florida. It doesn’t look like she’ll be visiting us at all now, but I’m glad we’re prepared just in case.
I’ll also add that if you have not stocked up on your water yet, Publix in Pace has a bunch. But they are just about out of sweet tea. Apparently southerners have their priorities.

Thursday Lanie woke up with her right eye stuck shut. Normally we just ride out eye goop but Lanie is different so I called her eye doc and he wanted to see her. We spent the afternoon at the ophthalmologist, then the pharmacist, then the other pharmacist, then at home, then at the pharmacist again. I feel like I could start a whole new blog just on going to the pharmacy.

Yesterday some friends came over and brought the one day a year pumpkin spice doughnuts from Krispy Kreme. She has three little girls who my little girls love and they had so much fun while she and I talked about foster care and doughnuts and…
Pretty much that is what we talked about the whole time.

Those doughnuts were good.
Then I took some of the kids to the book sale at the library. We found some good, cheap books to add to our shelves, the kids checked out some more books, and then we came home and I realized that my house is a disaster because I haven’t cleaned it at all this week.

I know there is stuff I missed in this recap. Probably important stuff but Lanie just woke up and she is coughing and I really need this lingering cold to just go away.

Also, my older boys’ alarm has been going off for 10 minutes now and neither is waking up to it. I wake up to the sound of somebody rolling over on the other side of the house so I’m not sure how they can sleep through that incessant beeping sound.

I guess I better go get them up.

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Lately it’s been all about the dinosaurs.

One of my younger kids’ favorite activities is cutting construction paper with scissors and pasting the pieces together to create dinosaurs.  I don’t know why it’s specifically dinosaurs but it is always dinosaurs.

Yesterday, just after showing me yet another construction paper dinosaur Sam asked where I keep the pins and I said I love your dinosaurs but you are not pinning them all over my walls.

The kids seemed to respect my desire to not have 500 tiny holes in all of my walls. However, unbeknownst to me they had started brainstorming about other ways to hang their dinos.  Since I had earlier vetoed the tape everything to everything idea, they opted to just use paste.

Gabe (16): Mom, are you aware that there are a bunch of dinosaurs glued to the walls and doors all over the house?

Me: What do you mean?

Gabe: I mean that the little kids are making many dinosaurs and gluing them to the walls.

I was rocking a fussy baby at the time and I didn’t get any pictures before I had them remove the quickly drying creations and for that, I am sorely disappointed in myself. I guess you’ll just have to trust me when I say that it was for real a historically accurate portrayal of The Land Before Time up in here.

Today I’ve decided that we’ll be taking a break from cutting paper and gluing all the things so now the kids have turned off all the lights in the house and they are playing some sort of ninja/manhunt game with flashlights and Nerf guns because it’s storming outside. They’ve even roped Gabe into the game and that is helpful because he tends to be good at keeping things from getting too out of control.

I think I’ll just hide out in my room with Lanie while she naps.

It is too quiet though. Not sure if I should be worried or just keep hiding and hope for the best.

Edit: As soon as I hit publish there was a loud eruption of laughing and confused conversation so I think we’re all good here.

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It’s odd to me that even though it is super easy to lure Kait is over here (food) I never can seem to get her in a picture with the younger three girls.

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I’ve also realized that I take way more pictures of Lanie than I do anybody else.  I think that is partly because she’s the baby and we’ve always had more pictures of the babies than the older kids, and partly because of her rough start and me not wanting to take any moment for granted.

And any pictures I do take of the older kids quite often involve them holding Lanie.

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Because I love how they love her.

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And I want to keep these moments forever.

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Because they are so, so good.

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If only I could stop and really live in every moment.

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Somebody get me a pause button. Quick.

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My dad had this mug made for me 22 years ago when my oldest child was just a baby.

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It’s lasted through many military moves and 100’s of cups of coffee and many kids drinking hot cocoa. The picture on the mug of Kait at less than a day old has faded but that child has grown and flourished and is now well into adulthood and I couldn’t be more proud to call her my daughter.

At 22 she’s managed to wrangle herself a training job at NFCU, teaching employees how to do mortgages and helping them keep up with the ever change laws and regulations.  She has her own place and a dog and a cat and a guy who is over here all the time because he is very serious about her.

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She loves her family and even though she doesn’t live here with us anymore she manages to visit us numerous times each week and spends every Sunday hanging out with us even when there is no football game to watch and that is really saying something.

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I’ve always said that Kait and I have our differences but the further into adulthood she gets, the more we talk openly with each other, the more I realize that we are quite similar and our differences aren’t really all that big or numerous.

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She is delightful and funny and has such a child-like silliness that keeps us all smiling.

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And she knows how to have fun and helps us to not take ourselves so seriously all the time.

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Just being around her makes me spew coffee out of my nose.

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And being her mom has made me a better person.

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I could go on and on about this girl but Lanie is getting hungry so I’ve got to abruptly stop writing and get this blog post up because if I don’t publish it right away I’ll forget about it and it will get lost.

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Catching up. Again.

It has been a really rough two weeks.

Like I had mentioned in a previous post, the kids came down with some rotten colds and while I’m a big proponent of letting a fever run it’s course I found myself administering ibuprofen at night, all night, just so we could all get some sleep.  And then, just as the littles were getting better I got sick and I have now been ill for two weeks.  The doctor said he thought I had strep throat and didn’t see the need to test for it, but just started me on a round of antibiotics.  After two days I felt so much better but my cough is still in my chest and keeps me up at night.  I have another appointment tomorrow so we’ll see what they say about that.  I know coughs can take a while to get over.

Okay.  I’m finished complaining now because this is just some of what I have to be thankful of in the mornings around here.

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These little girls are 2 and 4 and they are just about the funniest things ever.  They were making the silliest faces at each other but I didn’t catch the best of them because Maggie stops whatever she is doing if you point a camera at her.  She is a ham, but likes to look directly at the camera.

I did get this silly one though

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Lucy is much more dignified, but being almost 5 can do that to a girl I guess.

Here is another 3D ultrasound picture of Laney from last week.

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I realize her face looks smashed on one side but it really isn’t.  It was just the way she was laying and rolling at the time of the pictures.  I’ve noticed that 3D ultrasounds are a cross between very, very cool and very, very creepy.
I wish we had gotten pictures of her hair, which would appear she has in great abundance already.

My polyhydramnios has crossed over into severe territory and has to be monitored weekly right now. It’s annoying but really isn’t causing any problems and the benefit of having way too much amniotic fluid is awesome 3D pictures.  All the techs seem to love me because it’s very easy to get good pictures.

And her lips – OH MY GOODNESS.

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We went to Rabbit’s command picnic on Saturday and it was filthy humid. It was nice that our entire family could go because now that Kait has a job we aren’t always able to be all together for family outings.  She makes up for it by bringing me grilled chicken nuggets and lemonade from Chick-Fil-A a couple times a week.

Even though she came she was only able to stay long enough to eat and get this picture with Lucy before she had to get to work.

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My girls are so gorgeous.

There was one of those playground merry-go-rounds that every kid has a love/vomit relationship with.   It started with just a couple of my kids but, like zombies to a Daryl’s motorcycle, as soon as the thing got to spinning more kids seem to come out of the woodwork.  Then they begged Joe to come spin them FASTERFASTER-NOSTOP-IMGOINGTOTHROWUP!

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I’ve been watching too much The Walking Dead, I think, but what on earth is Daryl doing with a chopper during the Zombie apocalypse?  As Kait pointed out yesterday, Like seriously they have those silent hybrids now.
Gotta keep up his tough guy image I guess.

Kait is just starting the series so all those stupid things we’ve already gotten past she’s just now beginning to question and none of this has anything to do with Rabbit’s command picnic so I don’t know why we’re even having this discussion right now.

We did meet another large(ish) family there. At the picnic, not at the zombie apocalypse.  They have 5 kids and, wouldn’t ya know it, his callsign is Rabbit too.  They were very nice but we have more kids so we win.  I’m still waiting for my prize.

I should probably go now.  I need to research bomb shelters and emergency food storage.

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In which Lucy says the breakfast prayer.

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Dear Lord,
Thank you for our bellies.  
Thank you for letting the Sammies come over.
Thank you for our blessings.
Gabe, will you please help me?

There are a couple of things about this prayer that I feel make it blog worthy.

First, I have never thought to thank God for my belly. Totally convicted here.
Second, I don’t know what or who the Sammies are.
Third, the way she said the last line made it sound as if it was part of the prayer which made it kind of funny.
Fourth, isn’t she adorable?

P.S.  Upon further questioning just now I learned that while it was coming out as Sammies, she was actually saying families.  And since we had a couple of families over for dinner on Sunday and she loves to have people over, it would make sense that she would be thanking God for that.

 

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Girls gone goofy

These sisters might be 16 years apart but that doesn’t stop them from arguing, giggling together, talking about pixie dust, and being just plain goofy.

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I’ve been told by people that Kait and Lucy’s age difference will keep them from being close.  That they will never have anything in common and will therefor never develop a strong sisterly bond.

That it is pretty much the rule that their age spread will act as a repellent.

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This is one rule I just can’t see them following.

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