Our number 2. Joe.
When he was little, maybe 5, Joe wanted more than anything to be a superhero. He switched between Superman and Spiderman and when he started to jump off things to see if he could fly or swing from a web, I decided it was time for a conversation. When I told him he couldn’t actually become a superhero, it was just pretend, he broke down in tears and told me that he thought he already was one. Realizing that I had just broken his heart with that news made me unbelievably sad but he quickly moved on to believing he was actually Link and everything I said to him suddenly made sense.
(picture of Joe dressed as link to be added as soon as I locate it because it is awesome.)
Joe is 18 now and while he has not given up on his dreams of being a superhero, he has certainly reevaluated what that dream will look like in the real world and is working on a criminal psychology degree so he can help put the bad guys away and save the streets of Pensacola from madness and mayhem.
He also has this huge heart and a compassion that most people don’t get to see. I wish I could predict the next time he was going to sit on the side of the street with a homeless man so I could get a picture without him knowing. He brings them food, breaks bread with them, and gets their stories. He sees their needs, individually, and does what he can to provide.
And he loves his siblings.
He’s a very serious person but that doesn’t stop him from playing with the littles just about every day. He asks them questions and gets silly with them.
He encourages them.
And cares deeply for them.
He invests time with the older siblings because relationships are important to him.
They are important to him.
Joe takes advice very seriously and while he doesn’t always agree with his father and me, he considers what we say and holds our opinions in the highest regard. He meets with our pastor on a regular basis to ask questions and gain a better understanding of The Word. He wants to do life right and is constantly working to create good habits, meet goals, and learn more.
I am so proud of the son he is and the man he is becoming.
And I cannot wait to see what his future has in store for him.
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